Don't panic. I know that's next to impossible, but you need to be thinking clearly to be able to help law enforcement. Don't touch the computer or let anyone else touch it. This is not a time for your neighbor who is a computer expert to be fiddling around with your computer trying to find evidence. That should be left to the professionals.

Call your local law-enforcement agency first. They know your community best and are located right where you need them. Don't let them touch your computer, however, unless they have a cybercrime team.

Pull together the information they will need. Gather recent photos of your child and make sure that someone is talking to your child's friends to see if they have any information about the abduction. Make sure you have email account passwords available, and information about your Internet service provider (ISP).  If your child has an email account with at school, gather that information as well. Does your child have an instant messaging (IM) account? If so, make sure you have the IM account name and password. Do you use filtering or monitoring products? Find the manual, and make sure you have your passwords accessible.

Call the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children or the FBI. The National Center can be found at  1-800-THE-LOST.  You get the number for your local field office of the FBI from the phone book or at  www.fbi.gov/contact/fo/fo.htm.

Law enforcement has fast methods to obtain information from ISPs. They also have very good working relationships with the Internet service providers, since many of their security officers worked for the FBI and other federal law-enforcement agencies before joining the private sector. Sophisticated cybercrime teams can find almost anything online these days.

I hope you never need to use this information. Remember forewarning our children is forearming our children.

 

Parry Aftab is a noted online safety and privacy expert, and Executive Director of WiredSafety.org